The Comfort Jar — The Thing She Made When Someone Needed Taking Care Of
Comfort food in the Sicilian kitchen is the quiet kind: the jar brought over to a friend having a hard time, the gentle thing made when someone needs taking care of. Our comfort jar is Tutto Sicilia's Sicilian Almond Cream, made with Pizzuta d'Avola almonds from the hills above Avola, in southeastern Sicily.
There is a category of food that I think of as care food — the things that get made when someone needs taking care of, and the cooking is the care.
Not the elaborate Sunday lunch. Not the dinner party dish. The quieter thing — the bowl of something warm, the jar brought over to a friend who's having a hard time, the breakfast left outside someone's door when you know they're not okay.
Care food
Nonna made rice pudding. Sweet, very simple, a little vanilla, not complicated at all. She made it for illnesses and sadnesses and times when there was nothing else to say. It was the food that meant: I see you, and here is something gentle.
I've been thinking about what the equivalent is for me. The Sicilian version of the comfort jar.
The comfort jar
Almond cream, I've decided, is part of it. The Pizzuta d'Avola — from the hills above Avola in southeastern Sicily, where the trees bloom first of all, before everything else has woken up from winter — makes a cream that's gentle in the way that certain flavors are gentle. Not mild, not bland. Gentle the way a good thing held back slightly is gentle.
Over warm porridge on a difficult morning. Stirred into pudding for someone who needs something soft and good. Poured slowly over ice cream when a friend arrives unannounced and needs to sit at a table and talk.
The comfort jar doesn't announce itself. It's just there, in the pantry, available for the moments that need it.
Something from the hills above Avola, where the almonds grow in soil that has been worked for centuries, where the trees bloom in winter before anything else decides to. The first bloom. The quiet one. The one that comes when everything else is still waiting.
There's comfort in that too. The thing that shows up before it's expected. The jar that's already there.
Make something gentle with Budino di Mandorle, a Sicilian almond pudding, and read Made With Love, about the cake that said what words couldn't.
Questions about almond cream as comfort food
What is care food?
The food made when someone needs taking care of: a bowl of something warm, a jar brought to a friend, breakfast left at someone's door.
How do you use almond cream as comfort food?
Over warm porridge, stirred into pudding, or poured slowly over ice cream.
Where do Pizzuta d'Avola almonds come from?
The hills above Avola in southeastern Sicily, where the almond trees bloom in winter, before anything else.
Some things don't translate. They just live in you.
the pantry
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